Remembering our precious Lucas Henry
The complicated mixture of joy and sadness that comes with a new baby after loss. We welcomed our daughter Lyra Joy in February. She weighed 4 pounds 10 ounces...2 ounces smaller than her big brother Luke. She was not quite as long as he was. Lyra was also early; almost the exact same amount of … Continue reading On rainbows, laughter, and tears
Often, I think people probably assume those experiencing the depths of grief are sad all of the time. While this is true, there are certainly happy moments or times of positivity and even joy. Grief is complicated. After our son Luke was born still last November, we were plunged into a new cavern of grief. … Continue reading Pets – A Light in the Darkness of Grief
Mother's Day used to be so simple. I was a young boy, and I gave my mommy a card and hugs. Maybe I made something for her myself - I honestly can't even remember. And I wouldn't forget my grandmothers, of course. It was a simple day for a child - you love your mother … Continue reading Mother’s Day is for all Mothers
I wish everyone a happy Valentine's Day, for those spending time with their special ones, or thinking of their Valentines near, far, or even beyond. A poem On this Valentine's Day,Three hearts I'm keeping near.Though only two are here with me,I hold them all most dear.One - my beautiful wife.My partner, brave and true.Amazing, she … Continue reading A Valentine’s Day Poem
Our Luke 